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    The Identity & Self-Image category on Tom Rocket’s blog accompanies you on your journey to greater self-acceptance, knowledge, and strength. Here you will find articles on sexual identity, gay self-image, gender issues, discrimination, and personal experiences from the LGBTQ+ community.

    Boost your Sexual Confidence: How to become more self-confident in bed!

    Boost your Sexual Confidence: How to become more self-confident in bed!

    Ready to feel confident and sexy in bed? Discover powerful tips to boost your sexual confidence and own your pleasure like never before.

    Cora-Lynn

    29.03.2025

    The 4 most common reasons why gay men seek counseling

    The 4 most common reasons why gay men seek counseling

    Many gay men struggle with fears, discrimination, or relationship issues. Discover the 4 most common reasons for seeking counseling and how it can help.

    Cora-Lynn

    02.02.2025

    cis – Concept of gender affiliation

    cis – Concept of gender affiliation

    This text explains the meaning of terms such as "cisgender", "cis-man" and "cis-woman" and discusses their role and criticism in relation to gender identity.

    Tom

    21.03.2024

    Sex Journal – Stimulating diary of a special kind

    Sex Journal – Stimulating diary of a special kind

    Discover the benefits of a sex journal and learn how it can help you explore and process your sexual thoughts, fantasies and desires. Whether alone...

    Gally

    01.03.2024

    Gender Fluidity

    Gender Fluidity

    Discover the fascinating world of genderfluid gender identity and find out how images of masculinity are changing. Immerse yourself in the diversity of gender flexibility...

    Gally

    19.02.2024

    Particularities of sex with FTM

    Particularities of sex with FTM

    Discover the special features and exciting potential of sex with FTMs. Find out everything you need to know to have unforgettable experiences. Openness and communication...

    Gally

    08.01.2024

    FLINTA* – All important information

    FLINTA* – All important information

    Have you ever come across the term FLINTA* and wondered what it means? Find out everything you need to know about it here! From the...

    Cora-Lynn

    31.12.2023

    Courageously being yourself: Everything about coming out

    Courageously being yourself: Everything about coming out

    If you are gay, lesbian or feel that you belong to a non-heterosexual orientation or gender identity but are afraid to come out to yourself...

    Cora-Lynn

    11.10.2023

    The diversity of love: understanding bisexuality

    The diversity of love: understanding bisexuality

    Bi Visibility Day, also known as Celebrate Bisexuality Day, is celebrated annually on 23 September. The LGBTQIA+ community has been campaigning for the visibility and...

    Gally

    23.09.2023

    What exactly does Ace – Aromantic/Asexual/Agender mean?

    What exactly does Ace – Aromantic/Asexual/Agender mean?

    Discover Ace (Asexual, Aromantic, Agender) - the diversity of sexual and gender identities. Learn what it means to be agender, how pronouns are important and...

    R.O.B.

    06.04.2023

    Transgender – We explain to you what exactly is hidden behind this term!

    Transgender – We explain to you what exactly is hidden behind this term!

    Learn all about the diverse spectrum of transgender people and discover how individual gender identities and sexual orientations differ.

    Roxxy

    31.03.2023

    Queer Joy – make every day of your queer life a happy day!

    Queer Joy – make every day of your queer life a happy day!

    Learn how Queer Joy stands for representation and acceptance and how you can contribute to queer people being fully recognised in society. Immerse yourself in...

    Mike

    20.03.2023

    What exactly is bodyshaming?

    What exactly is bodyshaming?

    No question: The internet is the mirror of society. Most of us probably use dating apps like Grindr, Scruff, Hornet, Romeo and Co. today to...

    Gary

    24.02.2023

    What is vanilla sex, and should you really have it?

    What is vanilla sex, and should you really have it?

    When you think of vanilla, the first thing you probably think of is ice cream. And that's exactly what the pun is supposedly based on,...

    R.O.B.

    12.02.2023

    Identity & self-image: Why this topic is so important

    Men who are attracted to men are gay—right? It’s not quite that simple anymore, because fortunately, our society is becoming more open and tolerant. People have the opportunity to define their sexual identity for themselves and to redefine it again and again. But this freedom also brings challenges.

    Many queer people ask themselves:

    • Am I gay, bisexual, pansexual, or perhaps aromantic?
    • What does it mean to be cis or trans?
    • How does my self-image influence my coming out and my life in the LGBTQ+ community?

    This is exactly where Tom Rocket’s comes in. We want to help you better understand your identity and develop a strong, positive self-image.

    Understanding terms and concepts

    No one is born with complete knowledge. It’s perfectly normal to have to learn terms from the LGBTQ+ world first. Our articles provide you with understandable explanations of the most important concepts:

    • Cis, trans, genderfluid – what do these terms mean?
    • FLINTA* – why this term is so important for feminist movements
    • Ace, aromantic, asexual, agender – making diverse identities visible
    • Awareness days such as Non-Binary Day or Coming Out Day

    This content will not only help you build your own self-image, but also respect and understand other identities.

    Support in finding your identity

    For many, the search for their own identity as a gay man or queer person is an intense process. At Tom Rocket’s, you will find:

    • Personal accounts from people who have found their identity
    • Guides for coming out and self-acceptance
    • Tips for dealing with insecurities in the gay scene
    • Inspiration on how to strengthen your self-confidence

    We show you that you are not alone with your questions and doubts. Our goal is to encourage you and accompany you on your journey to a stable self-image.

    Discrimination and its effects

    Unfortunately, discrimination is still part of everyday life for many gay men and queer people. It affects self-image and can shake confidence in one’s own identity.

    At Tom Rocket’s, we want to educate and empower:

    • How do you deal with rejection?
    • What strategies help against prejudice?
    • How do you protect yourself from toxic situations?
    • How do you strengthen your self-confidence in everyday life?

    Our articles provide you with concrete recommendations for action so that you can develop a healthy and positive gay self-image despite hostile experiences.

    Positive role models and community

    A stable self-image is not only created through knowledge, but also through role models and the support of a community. That’s why at Tom Rocket’s you’ll find numerous articles on:

    • Coming-out stories from LGBTQ+ people
    • Successful role models from culture, politics, and sports
    • Authentic testimonials from our community

    These stories show you that there are many ways to live as a gay or queer person—and that each of them is valuable and valid.

    Practical tips for a strong self-image

    A healthy self-image also requires practical tools. Our articles offer you help for everyday life, e.g.:

    • Strategies for confidently expressing your identity to the outside world
    • Tips for dealing with criticism and rejection
    • Exercises for more self-love and inner strength
    • Inspiration for how you can express yourself creatively

    This is how you can develop a confident and positive gay self-image step by step that will carry you through every situation in life.

    Regular updates and new content

    Are you missing a specific topic? Then check back regularly. Our authors are constantly expanding the Identity & Self-Image section with new articles:

    • Current research findings and studies
    • Social developments and trends
    • New terms and concepts
    • Personal contributions from the community

    With Tom Rocket’s, you’ll always stay up to date and can continuously expand your knowledge.

    Conclusion: Your source for identity & self-image

    The Identity & Self-Image category at Tom Rocket’s offers you comprehensive insight into the topics of sexual identity, gay self-image, gender issues, and self-love.

    We support you with:

    • clear explanations of terms
    • inspiration through personal stories
    • tips for dealing with discrimination
    • practical exercises for greater self-confidence

    This way, you can find your own path step by step—confident, informed, and free. Tom Rocket’s is your source for everything you need to know about identity and self-image as a gay man or queer person.

    Expand your knowledge, find support, and shape your life in the LGBTQ+ community in a way that truly suits you.