Identity & Self-Image
The Identity & Self-Image category on Tom Rocket’s blog accompanies you on your journey to greater self-acceptance, knowledge, and strength. Here you will find articles on sexual identity, gay self-image, gender issues, discrimination, and personal experiences from the LGBTQ+ community.

Boost your Sexual Confidence: How to become more self-confident in bed!

Cora-Lynn
29.03.2025


The 4 most common reasons why gay men seek counseling





Cora-Lynn
02.02.2025


cis – Concept of gender affiliation


Tom
21.03.2024


Sex Journal – Stimulating diary of a special kind





Gally
01.03.2024


Gender Fluidity





Gally
19.02.2024


Particularities of sex with FTM





Gally
08.01.2024


FLINTA* – All important information





Cora-Lynn
31.12.2023


Courageously being yourself: Everything about coming out





Cora-Lynn
11.10.2023


The diversity of love: understanding bisexuality





Gally
23.09.2023


What exactly does Ace – Aromantic/Asexual/Agender mean?



R.O.B.
06.04.2023


Transgender – We explain to you what exactly is hidden behind this term!


Roxxy
31.03.2023


Queer Joy – make every day of your queer life a happy day!


Mike
20.03.2023


What exactly is bodyshaming?


Gary
24.02.2023


What is vanilla sex, and should you really have it?



R.O.B.
12.02.2023
Identity & self-image: Why this topic is so important
Men who are attracted to men are gay—right? It’s not quite that simple anymore, because fortunately, our society is becoming more open and tolerant. People have the opportunity to define their sexual identity for themselves and to redefine it again and again. But this freedom also brings challenges.
Many queer people ask themselves:
- Am I gay, bisexual, pansexual, or perhaps aromantic?
- What does it mean to be cis or trans?
- How does my self-image influence my coming out and my life in the LGBTQ+ community?
This is exactly where Tom Rocket’s comes in. We want to help you better understand your identity and develop a strong, positive self-image.
Understanding terms and concepts
No one is born with complete knowledge. It’s perfectly normal to have to learn terms from the LGBTQ+ world first. Our articles provide you with understandable explanations of the most important concepts:
- Cis, trans, genderfluid – what do these terms mean?
- FLINTA* – why this term is so important for feminist movements
- Ace, aromantic, asexual, agender – making diverse identities visible
- Awareness days such as Non-Binary Day or Coming Out Day
This content will not only help you build your own self-image, but also respect and understand other identities.
Support in finding your identity
For many, the search for their own identity as a gay man or queer person is an intense process. At Tom Rocket’s, you will find:
- Personal accounts from people who have found their identity
- Guides for coming out and self-acceptance
- Tips for dealing with insecurities in the gay scene
- Inspiration on how to strengthen your self-confidence
We show you that you are not alone with your questions and doubts. Our goal is to encourage you and accompany you on your journey to a stable self-image.
Discrimination and its effects
Unfortunately, discrimination is still part of everyday life for many gay men and queer people. It affects self-image and can shake confidence in one’s own identity.
At Tom Rocket’s, we want to educate and empower:
- How do you deal with rejection?
- What strategies help against prejudice?
- How do you protect yourself from toxic situations?
- How do you strengthen your self-confidence in everyday life?
Our articles provide you with concrete recommendations for action so that you can develop a healthy and positive gay self-image despite hostile experiences.
Positive role models and community
A stable self-image is not only created through knowledge, but also through role models and the support of a community. That’s why at Tom Rocket’s you’ll find numerous articles on:
- Coming-out stories from LGBTQ+ people
- Successful role models from culture, politics, and sports
- Authentic testimonials from our community
These stories show you that there are many ways to live as a gay or queer person—and that each of them is valuable and valid.
Practical tips for a strong self-image
A healthy self-image also requires practical tools. Our articles offer you help for everyday life, e.g.:
- Strategies for confidently expressing your identity to the outside world
- Tips for dealing with criticism and rejection
- Exercises for more self-love and inner strength
- Inspiration for how you can express yourself creatively
This is how you can develop a confident and positive gay self-image step by step that will carry you through every situation in life.
Regular updates and new content
Are you missing a specific topic? Then check back regularly. Our authors are constantly expanding the Identity & Self-Image section with new articles:
- Current research findings and studies
- Social developments and trends
- New terms and concepts
- Personal contributions from the community
With Tom Rocket’s, you’ll always stay up to date and can continuously expand your knowledge.
Conclusion: Your source for identity & self-image
The Identity & Self-Image category at Tom Rocket’s offers you comprehensive insight into the topics of sexual identity, gay self-image, gender issues, and self-love.
We support you with:
- clear explanations of terms
- inspiration through personal stories
- tips for dealing with discrimination
- practical exercises for greater self-confidence
This way, you can find your own path step by step—confident, informed, and free. Tom Rocket’s is your source for everything you need to know about identity and self-image as a gay man or queer person.
Expand your knowledge, find support, and shape your life in the LGBTQ+ community in a way that truly suits you.