Welcome to Tom Rocket’s Side Blog – your go-to source for everything related to gay side life. Here you’ll find exciting articles, real-life experiences, and lots of tips on blowjobs, deep throat, rimming, sex toys for sides, frotting, dry humping, jerking off, and solo play.
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Wanking & Solo Play
No Nut November asks men to go without ejaculation for a month. The studies are small, short or measure no hormones, and masturbation is a normal part of sexuality.
Testimonials Side
An honest night of rimming between two men – about closeness, trust and letting go.
Rimming
Why a rim job is more than foreplay – and how the tongue makes the move to anal sex much easier.
Wanking & Solo Play
Edging guide for intense orgasms and better control – solo techniques, partner exercises, and practical tips for beginners.
Health
Everything you need to know about safe sounding – from the right preparation to aftercare.
Testimonials Side
A heartfelt story about trust, vulnerability, and emotional intimacy in a gay relationship.
Frotting & Dry Humping
Everything about frotting – techniques, positions and tips for intense experiences.
Deep Throat
Deep Throat Power Play between dominance and intimacy – communication, safety and pleasure in gay BDSM.
Health
Learn how to prepare for rimming with confidence, comfort, body awareness, and the right intimate care.
Deep Throat
7 deep throat positions for intense oral sex – tips on technique, control, and trust.
BDSM, Fetish & Kink
An introduction to sounding focusing on technique, sensation, and controlled stimulation for a deeper body experience.
Testimonials Side
Alone in front of the mirror: an honest, intimate story about self-pleasure, awareness, and seeing yourself differently.
Health
Soft winter lips. More comfort for kissing and oral.
BDSM, Fetish & Kink
Sounding explained: responsible insights into an intense sexual practice for gay men.
Health
For many gay men, frotting is one of the most intense forms of physical intimacy. Skin-to-skin contact, friction, sweat, body odor, and mutual arousal are
Not every gay man is into anal sex – and that’s absolutely okay. Those who live as sides focus on sexual practices without penetration and discover pleasure in all its other facets. Our Side Blog is all about these types of sexuality, which can be just as intense, exciting, and satisfying as classic anal sex.
We offer guides, instructions, and real community posts that show you how to fully live out your sexuality as a side. From oral sex to rimming to solo play – at Tom Rocket’s, you’ll find input that’s open, honest, authentic, and without taboos.
For many sides, oral sex is the supreme discipline. Blowjobs are not only easy, but also incredibly versatile. In our blog, you’ll learn how to:
We’ll show you how oral sex isn’t just foreplay, but an intense main event that will make you and your partner really horny.
If you’re into even more intensity, try deep throat. For many sides, this is one of the most exciting practices. In our Side Blog, we give tips on how to practice step by step, explore your limits, and stay safe.
Deep throat can be a real highlight for you and your partner – provided you proceed gently and know the tricks.
For sides who like to stimulate the anal area without penetration, rimming is a perfect variation. With your tongue on your lover’s ass, you create one of the most direct and intimate forms of pleasure. In the Side Blog by Tom Rocket’s, you will learn:
Rimming is not only sexy, but also a real pleasure enhancer – perfect for sides who love intimacy and closeness.
Frotting (also called “cock-to-cock”) and dry humping are types of play that completely leave out penetration, but are still extremely intense. It’s all about friction, closeness, and increasing pleasure.
In the Side Blog, we explain how to find the right technique, how to try out different positions, and why these practices are pure fulfillment for many sides.
Sides can also use sex toys to increase their pleasure. At Tom Rocket’s, you’ll find information and tips on:
Our articles will help you choose the right toys for you and make your sex life as a side more varied.
Masturbation is not just a substitute for sides, but an integral part of their sexuality. In our blog, we show you:
Whether fast and intense or slow and persistent – jerking off is an important part of gay side life.
Authentic stories are at the heart of our Side Blog. Members of our community openly share their experiences:
These insights make it clear: being a bottom does not mean giving something up, but rather making a conscious decision to explore other forms of pleasure.
The Side Blog by Tom Rocket’s is more than just a collection of articles. It is a space for exchange, inspiration, and discussion. Our community stands for:
Here you can ask questions, share experiences, and find inspiration.
In the Side Blog by Tom Rocket’s, you’ll find everything you need to know about life as a side: from blowjobs and deep throat to rimming, frotting, sex toys, and solo play. We offer advice, experience reports, and exciting content to help you make your sex life exciting, varied, and confident.
Being a side doesn’t mean experiencing less—it means defining pleasure in a completely different way. With our articles, you’ll discover how fulfilling and exciting sexuality can be without penetration. Tom Rocket’s is your source for everything related to being a side—open, honest, and authentic.
