BDSM, Fetish & Kink

BDSM, fetish, and kink play a central role in the gay scene. Many gay men—whether submissive or dominant—openly live out their passion. But beginners in particular often have questions that they don’t want to ask just anyone. This is where we come in: we provide you with answers, tips, and inspiration on all aspects of BDSM in the gay scene.

What is BDSM, and how do I get started in the BDSM fetish?

The abbreviation BDSM stands for various sexual practices that are connected with each other and are often perceived as unusual by the social norm and...

Bruno

13.05.2023

Gay wrestling – fetish with lots of sweat, body contact

Explore the exciting fetish of gay wrestling! Discover the unique culture and BDSM elements of this vibrant scene. Immerse yourself in the world of bottoms...

Tom

20.04.2023

Nipple Play Guide – A guide to orgasm through nipple play

Find out how you can use sensual nipple play to send your partner (or yourself) into ecstasy. Discover stimulating techniques such as flicking, twirling and...

Gally

26.03.2023

What is watersports / golden shower / piss play?

Discover the excitement of urine play! Whether known as golden showers, wet games or golden fists, many men love to urinate on or in someone,...

Tom

14.03.2023

Breath play: You take my breath away!

Discover the exciting world of BDSM breathplay! Get to know the meaning, risks and different practices. Find out why people enjoy this fetish and which...

Tom

23.02.2023

Delaying orgasm: the best techniques

Find out how to relax properly and, above all, what techniques there are for delaying orgasm so that you can enjoy yourself for even longer.

Gary

09.01.2022

What is a sex enhancer for good sex?

It is said that about 10% of all people in our western society rely on stronger stimuli during sex (regardless of their sexual orientation, by...

R.O.B.

07.01.2022

BDSM in the gay scene: Getting started & orientation

BDSM can be exciting and challenging at the same time. Especially as a beginner, you may ask yourself: What do I really want? How far can or do I want to go?

We offer you guidance, show you safe practices, and help you discover your desires with confidence.

Subcategories BDSM, fetishes, and kinks

Well-known BDSM roles and fetish dating

Whether classic BDSM roles such as dom and sub, kink dating, or special practices—you’ll find all the information you need here:

Which fetishes are particularly common in the gay community?
How can you recognize red flags when looking for a dom or sub?
What are tunnel games?
Which bondage knots should you definitely master?

Whether you’re an experienced fetish lover or just starting out, you’ll find valuable answers here.

The Tom Rocket’s Community

Tom Rocket’s is more than just a shop: we are an open gay BDSM community that supports you.

For beginners: practical tips and basics for your first sessions.
For pros: new trends, insider knowledge, and special kink inspiration.

This is how you can find like-minded people and network safely.

Trends, news & updates

Our experienced authors from the scene regularly provide you with:

hot BDSM trends
new fetish practices
tips for subs and doms that will take your sex life to a new level

With us, you’ll always have your finger on the pulse of the gay kink scene.

Practical tips instead of taboos

Are you looking for taboo-free information with real added value? Then you are very welcome here. With us, you will find not only theory, but also real-life experiences. Learn how to make your sessions more intense, how to truly surrender as a sub, or how to lead confidently as a dom. Our content will help you experience BDSM not only safely, but also fulfillingly.

Your journey into the world of BDSM & fetish

Whether you’re a curious beginner or an experienced fetish enthusiast, with us you’ll find:

Answers to intimate questions
A lively gay BDSM community
Trends, tips, and knowledge that will enrich your sex life

Immerse yourself in the exciting world of BDSM, fetish, and kink—we’ll accompany you on your journey.