BDSM, Fetish & Kink

BDSM, fetish, and kink play a central role in the gay scene. Many gay men—whether submissive or dominant—openly live out their passion. But beginners in particular often have questions that they don’t want to ask just anyone. This is where we come in: we provide you with answers, tips, and inspiration on all aspects of BDSM in the gay scene.

CBT: Cock and Ball Torture – Your Guide for the BDSM Scene

Discover the world of Cock and Ball Torture (CBT), a unique BDSM practice combining pain and pleasure. Learn safe techniques, popular methods, and expert tips...

Bruno

25.12.2024

BDSM Subs: What Is It, and What Types Are There?

Explore the intriguing diversity of BDSM sub-types and uncover what it means to embrace a submissive role. Dive into a world of individuality and exciting...

Gally

17.12.2024

Erotic Spanking: Your Comprehensive Guide to the Slap on the Butt

“Clapping” isn’t just for the audience; it’s also for spanking. The English term conceals the less charming word “beating.” Since we’re not wildly thrashing each

Gally

12.12.2024

Coprophilia: Sexual Pleasure Through Excrement

Explore the intriguing world of coprophilia – one of the most unique fetishes out there. Learn about its origins, practices, and tips for safe exploration...

Bruno

04.12.2024

These Types of BDSM Doms Exist and How to Find the Right one for You

Dive into the world of BDSM and discover which Dom type suits you best! Learn how to find your ideal BDSM Dom and connect safely.

Roxxy

02.12.2024

Smoking Fetish: The Erotic Allure of Smoking

Discover the hidden world of smoking fetishism – from its role in BDSM to the sensual allure of tobacco and eroticism.

Roxxy

28.11.2024

BDSM Collar – The Ring of O: Meaning, Selection, and Safety for Submissives in BDSM Relationships

Explore the world of BDSM collars: From the "Ring of O" to safe usage—everything you need to choose the perfect accessory. Dive into its history,...

Gally

26.11.2024

Pony Play: Exploring the Exciting World of Pony Fetishism

Step into the fascinating world of pony play – a unique fetish blending roleplay, power dynamics, and devotion. Learn all about the roles, gear, and...

Bruno

17.11.2024

14 Exciting Bondage Positions for Gays: The Ultimate Guide to Desire and Passion

Discover 14 thrilling bondage positions for gay men, and learn how to combine control and passion safely. Ideal for beginners and experienced BDSM enthusiasts!

Gally

14.11.2024

Vore Fetish: The Desire to Be Devoured

Learn about the origins, forms, and fantasies of the Vore fetish, where the desire to be consumed takes center stage.

Roxxy

11.11.2024

Soft Dom: What is that?

Discover the world of Soft Dom: both dominant and caring. Learn how this gentler version of the classic Dom works, combining power and affection.

Roxxy

27.10.2024

The 7 Most Common BDSM Myths and Clichés

Where there’s a kink, there’s a myth. Today’s topic is BDSM myths. We’ve all encountered clichés and statements surrounding the topic of BDSM. “They’re constantly

Roxxy

21.10.2024

Nipple Clamps: Toys for Pain and Pleasure

Nipple clamps and other BDSM toys can cause both pain and pleasure.

R.O.B.

19.10.2024

Pleasure Dom: BDSM Pleasure Without Pain

A Pleasure Dom focuses on providing pleasure for their sub, avoiding pain if desired. They control when and how the sub experiences sexual fulfillment, based...

Axel

13.10.2024

Chastity Belt – Desire Under Lock and Key

Chastity belts are an essential BDSM toy, symbolizing control over desire and sexual submission. Available in various designs and materials, they require trust and responsibility.

Axel

03.10.2024

BDSM in the gay scene: Getting started & orientation

BDSM can be exciting and challenging at the same time. Especially as a beginner, you may ask yourself: What do I really want? How far can or do I want to go?

We offer you guidance, show you safe practices, and help you discover your desires with confidence.

Subcategories BDSM, fetishes, and kinks

Well-known BDSM roles and fetish dating

Whether classic BDSM roles such as dom and sub, kink dating, or special practices—you’ll find all the information you need here:

Which fetishes are particularly common in the gay community?
How can you recognize red flags when looking for a dom or sub?
What are tunnel games?
Which bondage knots should you definitely master?

Whether you’re an experienced fetish lover or just starting out, you’ll find valuable answers here.

The Tom Rocket’s Community

Tom Rocket’s is more than just a shop: we are an open gay BDSM community that supports you.

For beginners: practical tips and basics for your first sessions.
For pros: new trends, insider knowledge, and special kink inspiration.

This is how you can find like-minded people and network safely.

Trends, news & updates

Our experienced authors from the scene regularly provide you with:

hot BDSM trends
new fetish practices
tips for subs and doms that will take your sex life to a new level

With us, you’ll always have your finger on the pulse of the gay kink scene.

Practical tips instead of taboos

Are you looking for taboo-free information with real added value? Then you are very welcome here. With us, you will find not only theory, but also real-life experiences. Learn how to make your sessions more intense, how to truly surrender as a sub, or how to lead confidently as a dom. Our content will help you experience BDSM not only safely, but also fulfillingly.

Your journey into the world of BDSM & fetish

Whether you’re a curious beginner or an experienced fetish enthusiast, with us you’ll find:

Answers to intimate questions
A lively gay BDSM community
Trends, tips, and knowledge that will enrich your sex life

Immerse yourself in the exciting world of BDSM, fetish, and kink—we’ll accompany you on your journey.