BDSM, Fetish & Kink

BDSM, fetish, and kink play a central role in the gay scene. Many gay men—whether submissive or dominant—openly live out their passion. But beginners in particular often have questions that they don’t want to ask just anyone. This is where we come in: we provide you with answers, tips, and inspiration on all aspects of BDSM in the gay scene.

BDSM aftercare: the most important facts for pleasurable passion

BDSM is more than pain and power—true intimacy begins with proper aftercare. Discover why post-session care is essential for trust and connection.

Roxxy

12.08.2025

Diaper fetish: How does it manifest itself and how is it acted out?

Explore the intriguing world of diaper fetishism – from roleplay and desire to personal identity. Learn how diverse and individual this fetish can be.

Gally

08.08.2025

BDSM principles explained: SSC, RACK, PRICK & more – what you should know before things get serious

BDSM is more than just whips and chains: Discover the key principles like SSC, RACK, and PRICK for safe and consensual play. Ready to explore...

Gally

27.07.2025

Pig Play: When lust, dirt, and devotion become one

It’s no secret that the BDSM world is as diverse as the people who inhabit it. In addition to classics such as dominance and submission,

Roxxy

26.07.2025

BDSM benefits for health and relationships

BDSM is more than just kink – it builds intimacy, boosts self-esteem, and strengthens relationships. Discover how power play supports mental and emotional well-being!

Roxxy

22.06.2025

Fetish vs. kink: What’s the difference?

Fetish or kink – what’s the real difference? Discover what sets them apart and how to embrace your desires confidently.

Roxxy

04.06.2025

Sperm stopper: Can the visible climax really be delayed?

Take control of your climax with a physical twist: The sperm stopper prevents ejaculation and enhances your BDSM experience. Learn how it works—safely and effectively!

R.O.B.

01.05.2025

Fear play: The pleasurable game of playing with fear

Enter the thrilling world of Fearplay – where adrenaline meets trust. Discover why fear can become a source of intense sexual arousal.

Roxxy

27.04.2025

Sissy fetish / sissification – When a man is raised to be a girl or a woman

Dive into the intense world of Sissification – a bold BDSM roleplay where masculinity is unraveled and transformed. Explore the dynamics of submission and gender...

Roxxy

23.04.2025

Rope Bottom or Rope Bunny: The pleasure of passionate bondage games

Step into the captivating world of rope bondage! Learn what it means to be a Rope Bunny or Rope Bottom – and how to safely...

Roxxy

23.03.2025

Rigger BDSM: Captivating eroticism with your rope top

Discover the captivating world of Rigger BDSM! Learn all about bondage, safety, and how to skillfully tie yourself or your partner.

Roxxy

22.03.2025

Rubber fetish: 7 facts you need to know about it

There are well-known and lesser-known kinks, with rubber fetish being one of the most well-known passions. It relates to the material rubber and is frequently

Bruno

03.03.2025

Findom: When the “cashmaster” exerts dominance beyond sex

Findom – the world of financial domination. Discover why people willingly submit financially and what makes this unique BDSM practice so enticing!

Bruno

20.02.2025

Playing doctor sex: with hot “examinations” to orgasm

Step into the world of doctor play sex! Discover hot roleplays, medical BDSM, and how to safely live out your fantasies.

Gally

16.02.2025

Self-bondage: 10 tips for tying yourself up

Self-bondage can be incredibly thrilling – but safety first! Here are 10 essential tips to tie yourself up while staying risk-free.

Roxxy

11.02.2025

BDSM in the gay scene: Getting started & orientation

BDSM can be exciting and challenging at the same time. Especially as a beginner, you may ask yourself: What do I really want? How far can or do I want to go?

We offer you guidance, show you safe practices, and help you discover your desires with confidence.

Subcategories BDSM, fetishes, and kinks

Well-known BDSM roles and fetish dating

Whether classic BDSM roles such as dom and sub, kink dating, or special practices—you’ll find all the information you need here:

Which fetishes are particularly common in the gay community?
How can you recognize red flags when looking for a dom or sub?
What are tunnel games?
Which bondage knots should you definitely master?

Whether you’re an experienced fetish lover or just starting out, you’ll find valuable answers here.

The Tom Rocket’s Community

Tom Rocket’s is more than just a shop: we are an open gay BDSM community that supports you.

For beginners: practical tips and basics for your first sessions.
For pros: new trends, insider knowledge, and special kink inspiration.

This is how you can find like-minded people and network safely.

Trends, news & updates

Our experienced authors from the scene regularly provide you with:

hot BDSM trends
new fetish practices
tips for subs and doms that will take your sex life to a new level

With us, you’ll always have your finger on the pulse of the gay kink scene.

Practical tips instead of taboos

Are you looking for taboo-free information with real added value? Then you are very welcome here. With us, you will find not only theory, but also real-life experiences. Learn how to make your sessions more intense, how to truly surrender as a sub, or how to lead confidently as a dom. Our content will help you experience BDSM not only safely, but also fulfillingly.

Your journey into the world of BDSM & fetish

Whether you’re a curious beginner or an experienced fetish enthusiast, with us you’ll find:

Answers to intimate questions
A lively gay BDSM community
Trends, tips, and knowledge that will enrich your sex life

Immerse yourself in the exciting world of BDSM, fetish, and kink—we’ll accompany you on your journey.