Do you like to take the passive part during sex? You like having sex with several tasty guys at the same time? Do you like cum? Well, if you’re attracted to being used during sex, you fulfil all the requirements for being a cum dump. In this article, you’ll find out exactly what this is. How this particular form of play works among men and what you should bear in mind.
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What does cum dump actually mean?
First, the term cum dump is made up of the English words “cum” and “dump”. As you probably know, cum stands for sperm, the English word “dump” means something like pile of rubbish. Cum dump as a sexual game describes when several loads of sperm from different men are dumped in the face, mouth or ass of a recipient. He is the actual cum dump, and absorbed by him. It is therefore unprotected sex, i.e. sex practiced without condoms.
Cum dump is often used colloquially to describe a person, in the queer family a man, as an object of lust. A cum dump session is about the sexual-playful exertion of power over the passive part. He is used by a group who penetrate him anally and/or orally one after the other. And then use him as a cum dump for their cum. This form of sexual practice is used to belittle the recipient, to show him that he is perceived as sexually free. He is seen as someone who enjoys having sex with several men very often. Although cum dump is considered offensive and disrespectful by parts of Western society, it has established itself in the queer community as a description for an exciting sexual variation.
In order to make anal sex with many men for the cum dump as painless as possible and to provide the tops with even more tangy sensations, helpers for anal relaxation, deep throat sprays and sperm boosters are often used. With such aids, everyone involved in the cum dump gets their money’s worth. Cum dump sessions usually take place as organized events in private homes, sometimes also in hotels. However, cum dump parties can also develop spontaneously in gay saunas or gay cinemas. When people with the same sexual interests come together.
Why is cum dumping so popular?
This question can be looked at from different perspectives, from that of the actual cum dump, then from the perspective of the cum dump partner and finally from the perspective of those who participate in a cum dump session as guests, so to speak.
First
Some men are excited by the idea of several men squirting their cum in his face, on his body or in his mouth or ass one after the other, using him as a kind of “cum dump” during their orgasm. A cum dump therefore not only has a special preference for regular sex sessions in a group. He also loves cum and doesn’t mind holding several loads of cum in his mouth and swallowing them. The same goes for his bum. Cum dumps love the feeling of being pumped full of cum. They also enjoy being used and dominated by other men. Many also use their role as a submissive and controlling cum dump as a balance to their everyday life. In this role, they may exercise control over others themselves, for example as an entrepreneur or high-ranking employee.
Then
However, there are also couples who practice cum dump. These are usually partners with an addiction to BDSM. In this case, there is an active partner who then makes their passive partner available to other men as an object of lust, so to speak. It is not uncommon for the two partners to see themselves as “master” and “slave”. Cum dump serves here as a means for the master to show his power over his “slave” by determining who his partner is available to. Basically, Cum dump is a continuation or extension of BDSM role play on a sexual level.
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A third perspective is offered by those who are invited as guests, so to speak, to use a cum dump sexually. This can be done orally or anally. But always with the aim of depositing their semen on or in the cum dump. For the guests, the main attraction is to use a more or less strange sexually and to dominate them in the process. In many cases, they are tops and rarely have the urge to act as bottoms. They are also often interested in satisfying their sexual needs anonymously without having to make any kind of commitment.
All in all, the cum dump is about satisfying various sexual needs. On the one hand, the aim is for the active sex partner to relinquish control or take control. In addition, the cum dump allows you to live out your preference for sperm and unprotected sex. This type of play also gives you the opportunity to have sex with several men at the same time. The anonymity of the cum dump, i.e. the fact that you are having sex with strangers, also provides a special thrill.
Legal aspect of the cum dump
In purely legal terms, it will be difficult to prosecute someone in any way for contracting a sexually transmitted disease as a result of a cum dump party. If you attend such a party, you do so in the knowledge that everyone involved will not only have close physical contact with each other, but will also come into contact with the semen of other men.
Cumdump without bareback is difficult
By now, you have learnt that the cum dump is a type of game that only works without a partner. Its appeal lies in the fact that the tops involved squirt their sperm into all the cum dump’s orifices. Especially his mouth and ass. The aim of the passive part, on the other hand, is to get as many loads of cum as possible. Ultimately, there is no room for the classic method of using condoms. Ultimately, there are two ways to protect yourself. One option is PeP (post-exposure prophylaxis). This type of prophylaxis can be prescribed by a doctor after a high-risk contact and helps to protect against HIV infection. The alternative is called PrEP (pre-exposure prophylaxis) and, when used regularly, builds up a protective barrier, so to speak, against infection with the HI virus as a precautionary measure.
In order to ensure the greatest possible safety during a cum dump session, it makes sense to only invite men who are known to be healthy or who use PrEP. This is a good way to at least reduce the health risks, especially for friends of the cum dump. Ultimately, however, you have to accept the risks if you are a fan of this type of play and want to live out your sexual fantasies.
What is definitely advisable are regular health checks, where you have yourself tested for sexually transmitted diseases such as HIV, gonorrhea, syphilis and similar illnesses. This way, you can react quickly in the event of illness, suspend your sexual contacts for the duration of treatment and thus protect others as well.