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If you’re sitting there with question marks above your head, wondering what a dirty talk blowjob should look (or rather sound) like, you’re thinking about it the wrong way. It’s not you, as the active partner, who should be whispering and turning your partner on. Dirty talk is perfect for you if you’re the one receiving the blowjob. Not only does it signal to your partner how horny they’re making you, but you can also give them feedback at the same time. And even during an active blowjob, talking is possible. For example, when you’re teasing the tip of his penis with your tongue and whispering a few hot words in between.
Authentic and confident – how to give a dirty talk bj
You have the hottest words in your head, but they won’t come out of your mouth. If this is the case, you’re not alone, because dirty talk takes practice. The first few times, it feels strange to say taboo and dirty words or talk about what’s happening. It’s important that you don’t just recite something from the textbook of erotic promises, but say words that come from deep within you. Depending on the mood, these can be tender, dominant, or even playful and pleading.
Three real practice aids for learning dirty talk bjs
You want to but can’t? It’s difficult at first, but you can learn it. First of all, it’s important that you can say the words you want to say without feeling ashamed. If you rarely use terms like cock, balls, penis, suck, horny, and many others in everyday life, they will feel strange on your tongue.
We have three tools to help you learn dirty talk:
- Practice while masturbating: Even if it sounds silly at first, masturbating is the best way to practice. Imagine that it’s not your hand but your partner who is pleasuring you. Then say all the things you would say to them. Listen to your voice, notice what you find uncomfortable, and make it a habit to say things out loud.
- Say it in an audio message: WhatsApp and other messaging apps allow you to send voice messages of any length. This way, you can slowly get your partner used to your erotic tone of voice. Whisper your desires into the phone, send him your fantasies, and see how he reacts. To be on the safe side, warn him that the message contains spicy content.
- Take it slow: In the beginning, it’s enough to say simple words to your lover while giving them a blowjob. “Hot” or “deeper” are good first steps to get you used to talking during sex. When you look down and see that they like what you’re saying, you’ll automatically become more confident.
Tip: Some men find it easier to express themselves when they turn sex into role play. You can slip into the role of a dirty macho man or a submissive little sex slave begging for the next blowjob. Since you’re not being “yourself,” it’ll be easier for you to talk.
Sensual and seductive phrases that go well with playful dirty talk bjs
The words that suit you best also depend on the setting. If things get wilder, you can adjust your commands.
In a playful, seductive mood, however, the following phrases work quite well:
- “Did you know that I can do more than just lick ice cream?”
- “If you keep doing that…”
- “I hear you’ve been naughty? You should take an oral exam.“
- ”You’re my cliffhanger, I need to know how this continues.”
It’s always best to speak from the heart. Especially when it comes to playful talk, the setting is very important. If you’re into puppy play, different phrases will work better than for those who enjoy food porn in bed.
Affectionate and romantic phrases for blowjobs in a relationship
You cuddle extensively, feel attracted to each other, and then your lover indulges you with their lips. Dirty talk is also possible on a romantic level, but the choice of words is a little different.
Try phrases like:
- “Your touch is driving me crazy, can you please keep going?”
- “It’s not just your mouth… it’s the fucking hot look you give me when you look at me.”
- “I wish I could stop time and feel your warm mouth forever.”
- “You don’t just make me horny, you make me happy.”
- “I want to enjoy every inch of me in your mouth.”
- “Just stay like that and never go away, you make me horny.”
Here, too, it all depends on your interplay. In many relationships, you can also be funny and direct. “Hey, can I be your Kinder bar? I’m sweet and you can suck me until I’m white.”
Dominant dirty talk when you take the lead
Today you’re the boss and your partner gets to spoil you. Turn him on, give him commands and show him how he makes you wild.
Here are some hot example sentences for you:
- “Come on, deeper, it’s only hot when you gag.”
- “If you stop, you’ll have to fuck yourself as punishment today.”
- “If you want me to come, keep doing that.”
- “I decide when you stop, and that’s going to be a long time.”
- “Swallow, don’t spit, understand?”
- “Good boy… if I want, you’ll get a reward later.”
In the BDSM scene, words naturally go much deeper and further. “Suck or your balls will suffer.”
How to turn him on with words as a blowjob giver
You juggle his best piece, his balls, and then your words too? Hot multi-talent, but your lover will thank you for it.
The following phrases are guaranteed to turn him on:
- “You just taste like… more!”
- “You’re already that hard? I haven’t even started yet.”
- “Should I go faster? Or should I keep you waiting?”
- “I like your eyes when you lose control.”
- “You’ve been waiting all day for me to go down on you.”
- “Tell me what you want. I’ll only listen to you when it comes out of your mouth.”
You can turn him on with words and touch while giving him a blowjob. Let your tongue circle his glans while you look deep into his eyes and ask him what he really wants from you. When he’s close to orgasm, you won’t have many words left. But try a soft hum in this situation. The vibrations will spread throughout his entire penis.
Conclusion: Talking is hot – if you do it!
Dirty talk isn’t a duty, it’s a hot game with words that turns you both on. You don’t have to sound perfect or recite porn. The more genuine your words are, the hotter it will be for him. Start small, be brave, and if you start stuttering, it doesn’t matter. After all, he’s the one who’s making you so hot that you can’t find the right words.
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