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Sides, listen up, do you already know these six exciting dry humping positions? If not, you should definitely try them out. Are you wondering what we mean by dry humping? Our cowboys have already explained this in more detail elsewhere: Dry Humping. But don’t panic, we’ll refresh your knowledge a little. Then we’ll get started with the hottest positions you absolutely have to try the next time you’re getting frisky.
Sex without sex – dry humping keeps things dry, but not boring
As a side, anal sex isn’t your thing, but you don’t want to resort to hand jobs and blow jobs forever? You’re the perfect candidate for dry humping, which you may know as frottage. In short, you rub against your lover and they rub against you. You satisfy each other in this rubbing way without even having to take your clothes off.
The advantages of dry humping may not be obvious at first glance, but they are there:
● This form of sex is pretty clean.
● Safer sex is possible through clothes.
● You are and remain an anal virgin.
● Dry humping can also replace foreplay.
● Dry humping is possible anywhere.
Of course, humping is also possible naked; you can rub yourself against your lover completely naked. With a good body oil, it even becomes quite smooth. But if you want it to be dry, dry humping is perfect.
Six dry humping positions that are really fun
If you want to try it out or are an experienced “dry humper” simply looking for a change, we present six positions that are sure to bring you pleasure. You probably already know some of them, while others may be completely new to you.
1. Dry humping standing against the wall
This position is perfect for the club toilet or a quickie in the hallway. One of you turns face down toward the wall, using your hands for support. If you are the active partner, press yourself against your lover from behind and rub against their butt.
You can vary the position by looking at each other and rubbing your penises together through your clothes. This works best when standing if you are of similar height. Feel free to vary the position by having one of you wrap your leg around the other’s hips. Anything goes, as long as you both enjoy it.
2. Reverse cowboy for sides
As is well known, the reverse cowboy sits on his partner as in the riding position and turns his head towards him. This also works with dry humping.
If you are active, ask your partner to lie on his back. Now sit on his lap and you have full power. You rub your best piece against his while he can knead your buttocks or just enjoy. Of course, you can also switch and turn the reverse cowboy into the classic cowboy. The cowgirl position is perfect for dry humping in all its variations, because you’re the boss when you’re on top.
3. Dry spooning
The spooning position is cozy and comfortable. It’s perfect for lazy Sunday mornings when you’re still lying in bed together and suddenly get horny. You simply slide up to your lover, grab their hips, and you can rub yourself against their buttocks.
This is the ideal position if you like to cuddle and be close to each other. To keep your lover from getting bored, wrap your arm around their hips and massage their testicles or penis while rubbing. This way, you both get something out of it and can rub each other into seventh heaven.
4. Face humping as a hot alternative
If you like blowjobs and facesitting, you’ll love this position. Face humping involves sitting on your partner’s face and rubbing your clothed genitals against them. This position is perfect for underwear, but you shouldn’t wear jeans (ouch). Make sure you rub gently and carefully, as rough seams in your shorts can cause injuries to the face. You can also use massage oil to make it smoother.
Your lover remains completely passive, their hands can guide your hips. They leave their tongue in, don’t blow or suck, but just offer their face for rubbing.
Want to return the favor? That works in the 69 position. While you rub your cock against his face, you rub your face against his cock. If you’re on top, you’re the king, but you can also switch. This way, you both enjoy maximum freedom and can rub yourselves intimately into bliss.
5. Prone position in bed
The missionary position is a classic for dry humping, but it also works the other way around. Instead of lying on your partner’s chest, he turns onto his stomach and presents his backside. Now you take the active role and rub yourself against his back, his butt, his legs. The pressure from above pushes him toward the mattress and ensures that he has fun too.
If you want to look into each other’s eyes and kiss, your lover can simply turn around and you can rub against each other in the missionary position until you reach climax.
6. Give it to him doggy style
The good old doggy style also works with your clothes on. Admittedly, as the active partner, you get more out of this position than in the doggy style position, but you can switch at any time. Your partner kneels in front of you, sticking their panty-covered ass out towards you. You now have the opportunity to rub yourself between their butt cheeks and treat yourself to some special moments. If you squeeze their cheeks together a little, it creates a kind of rubbing groove that really gets you going.
If he doesn’t just want to be a friction point for you, he can use his hands to massage his cock at the same time. If your arms are long enough, you can take over the task.
Conclusion: Dry humping is possible in many different positions
Dry rubbing is a great way to orgasm without any mess or other risks. Since you don’t have to hit a hole, any position that allows you to create friction is suitable. Sometimes the position isn’t right for rubbing your cocks together, but you can also do it one after the other.
A little tip: Dry humping even works in solo mode! You can rub yourself against your sofa, armchair, pillow, stuffed animal, or other sexy objects without taking your clothes off. It even works during a picnic by the lake if you find a quiet and secluded spot. How about using an air mattress as a friction point?