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Side Blog – Everything about pleasure without penetration

Not every gay man is into anal sex – and that’s absolutely okay. Those who live as sides focus on sexual practices without penetration and discover pleasure in all its other facets. Our Side Blog is all about these types of sexuality, which can be just as intense, exciting, and satisfying as classic anal sex.

We offer guides, instructions, and real community posts that show you how to fully live out your sexuality as a side. From oral sex to rimming to solo play – at Tom Rocket’s, you’ll find input that’s open, honest, authentic, and without taboos.

Blowjobs & Oral – The Classic Among Side Practices

For many sides, oral sex is the supreme discipline. Blowjobs are not only easy, but also incredibly versatile. In our blog, you’ll learn how to:

• improve your technique and keep the blowjob exciting for longer
• create even more pleasure with your tongue, lips, and hands
• relax and let yourself go during oral sex
• try creative variations to bring variety into play

We’ll show you how oral sex isn’t just foreplay, but an intense main event that will make you and your partner really horny.

Deep throat – pure intensity

If you’re into even more intensity, try deep throat. For many sides, this is one of the most exciting practices. In our Side Blog, we give tips on how to practice step by step, explore your limits, and stay safe.

• Breathing techniques for more relaxation
• Lubricant for a more comfortable experience
• Positions that make deep throat easier
• Experience reports from sides who have perfected their skills

Deep throat can be a real highlight for you and your partner – provided you proceed gently and know the tricks.

Rimming – tongue action for real gays

For sides who like to stimulate the anal area without penetration, rimming is a perfect variation. With your tongue on your lover’s ass, you create one of the most direct and intimate forms of pleasure. In the Side Blog by Tom Rocket’s, you will learn:

• how to prepare yourself and your partner hygienically
• which techniques are possible with lips, tongue, and even toys
• how to combine rimming with blowjobs or frotting
• Experience reports from the community that show how hot rimming can be

Rimming is not only sexy, but also a real pleasure enhancer – perfect for sides who love intimacy and closeness.

Frotting & Dry Humping – Pleasure from friction

Frotting (also called “cock-to-cock”) and dry humping are types of play that completely leave out penetration, but are still extremely intense. It’s all about friction, closeness, and increasing pleasure.

• Frotting: Two cocks rub directly against each other, often with the help of lubricant.
• Dry humping: Fully clothed or in underwear – pleasure is created through pressure and friction.

In the Side Blog, we explain how to find the right technique, how to try out different positions, and why these practices are pure fulfillment for many sides.

Sex toys for sides – more than just toys

Sides can also use sex toys to increase their pleasure. At Tom Rocket’s, you’ll find information and tips on:

• Masturbators: From Fleshlights to high-tech devices for intense solo play
• Vibrators: For direct penis stimulation or combined play
• Cock rings: For harder erections and longer sessions
• Toys for rimming: Tongue attachments or vibration aids

Our articles will help you choose the right toys for you and make your sex life as a side more varied.

Jerking off & solo play – deluxe masturbation

Masturbation is not just a substitute for sides, but an integral part of their sexuality. In our blog, we show you:

• different techniques for jerking off
• how to use toys for solo play
• how to enhance your sessions with porn, fantasies, or role-playing
• why masturbation is also important for mental health

Whether fast and intense or slow and persistent – jerking off is an important part of gay side life.

Experience reports from sides

Authentic stories are at the heart of our Side Blog. Members of our community openly share their experiences:

• Coming out as a bottom
• Experiences with partners who expected penetration
• Personal tips on how to keep your sex life as a bottom varied
• Inspiring stories about self-acceptance and desire

These insights make it clear: being a bottom does not mean giving something up, but rather making a conscious decision to explore other forms of pleasure.

Side Blog Community – Exchange without taboos

The Side Blog by Tom Rocket’s is more than just a collection of articles. It is a space for exchange, inspiration, and discussion. Our community stands for:

• Openness and honesty
• Mutual support
• First-hand tips and tricks
• Diversity of queer identities

Here you can ask questions, share experiences, and find inspiration.

Your Side Blog at Tom Rocket’s

In the Side Blog by Tom Rocket’s, you’ll find everything you need to know about life as a side: from blowjobs and deep throat to rimming, frotting, sex toys, and solo play. We offer advice, experience reports, and exciting content to help you make your sex life exciting, varied, and confident.

Being a side doesn’t mean experiencing less—it means defining pleasure in a completely different way. With our articles, you’ll discover how fulfilling and exciting sexuality can be without penetration. Tom Rocket’s is your source for everything related to being a side—open, honest, and authentic.