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There’s an old saying, “from hand to mouth,” but it refers more to eating than to gay blowjobs. However, your mouth and hands also come into play in bed with your lover. You don’t have to think of them separately, because it’s the skillful combination of the two that really brings a lot of fun. Using both your hands and your mouth at the same time means more stimulation for your partner. Sometimes one hand can be left unused, but that’s actually a shame. We’ll tell you how to effectively combine your hand and mouth to give the perfect blow-hand job.
Cock, cock, balls – the effective trio
This method is a classic for an impressive blowjob. One hand wraps around his shaft and pulls back the foreskin if necessary. This exposes his glans, allowing you to stimulate it with your mouth or tongue. The second hand is occupied with his balls. Here, anything he likes is allowed. Gentle stroking, intense pinching, tapping, or a ball massage with a good massage oil turn the blowjob into an all-round experience.
There is also room for variation when giving a blowjob. When you pull back his foreskin with your hand, you expose his frenulum. It is now perfectly accessible for your tongue. Try to see if he can orgasm purely from stimulation of this sweet spot.
Caution: Remember to practice safe sex during oral sex if you want to avoid STIs.
Cock, cock, ass – also possible for sides
With this trio combination, you take care of his cock with one hand and your mouth, while your free hand plays with his ass. If your lover is a side and doesn’t like anal penetration, you still have plenty of options. The area around his anus is sensitive, and a gentle finger massage of his rosebud without penetration can be hot if he likes it.
If you’re not sides, your fingers are perfect for a prostate massage. It’s important to cut your nails beforehand and use a good lubricant for penetration. Many gay men find a prostate massage an intense experience on its own. If you have his cock in your mouth at the same time, it can trigger explosive orgasms.
Cock, cock, cock – also works for two
Don’t panic, you don’t need a third man in the bedroom for this variation. Your partner and you have enough cocks to keep your hands and mouth busy. With one hand, you either hold back his foreskin or jerk off his shaft and about two-thirds of his lance. The upper third belongs to your mouth. You don’t even have to move your head much, you can simply stimulate him with your tongue, a gentle humming sound, or sucking movements.
And where does the second cock come from? Quite simply, from your pants. Who says you can’t pamper yourself a little while giving a blowjob? While you stroke and suck him, you also stimulate your own best piece at the same time. Perfect if you’re working towards a mutual orgasm. You’ll feel his cock pumping with your lips and tongue. At that point, at the latest, you should let go.
Tip: If you don’t like self-handjobs, you can also use a masturbator during a blowjob.
Cock, cock, cock – the other variation
For this variation, you only need his cock, but both your hands and your mouth are still in use on his best piece. You enclose him with your hands, starting from the bottom, so that his glans remains free. You devote yourself to the tip with your mouth and suck, lick, nibble (depending on what he likes).
In between, you alternately pull your hands up slightly and push them back down again. Even though this is more of a handjob than a blowjob, your warm, soft tongue stimulates his glans.
Cock, ass, ass – here you are passive
You are not always the active part in every blowjob; sometimes you blow and are still passive. This happens when he squats on your face or leans over you and thrusts his cock into your mouth. In this position, you have both hands free to play with his ass.
Push him closer to you or massage his cheeks. If you’re flexible enough, you can also send one of your fingers on a journey towards his rosebud. Whether it goes in or not depends on your individual preferences.
Incidentally, this position also works great when you sit with your back to the wall and he stands in front of you. Depending on your height, a pillow under your butt may be helpful.
Secret trick: How to simulate a deep throat with your hand and mouth
For many men, throat fucking is the epitome of pleasure, but for some gay men, the uvula plays tricks on them. If you gag extremely and can’t control it, you can use your hands to simulate a fake deep throat.
To do this, form a ring with your thumbs, middle fingers, and index fingers. Place these two “O-rings” under your mouth around his penis. It will feel as if your mouth has been extended when you perform the classic blowjob movements.
Make sure that your hands and mouth work in sync and that it doesn’t get dry. An edible lubricant is perfect for maintaining smoothness.
The handjob plus as a variation of the classic blowjob
When you think of a blowjob, the first thing that comes to mind is a cock in your mouth. But there are other ways, for example, with your mouth on his crown jewels. In this variation, you lick and suck his balls while your hands take care of his cock. A good lubricant is a must, because then it almost feels as if your wet mouth is everywhere.
A little tip: Try this option in the doggy position. Not only can you lick and stimulate his testicles wonderfully, but you can also let your mouth and tongue dance over his perineum and around his rosebud. Everything is side-compliant and guaranteed not to be boring.
Conclusion: See hands and mouth as a unit
In none of the techniques suggested above do the mouth or hand work alone. The combination means that the possibilities seem endless. If you practice anal sex and penetration, your options are even greater. Finger fucking while your mouth is around his glans or massaging his P-spot can lead to climaxes that neither of you have experienced before. Just try out your favorite technique.